They say that love is divine and it only happens with the one you are meant to be with. Well, if this was the case, heartbreaks and break-ups would be a myth. But since this is not the case, you have to go out and search for your knight in shining armor all by yourself. So how do you know that you have finally met the one?
Here are 5 points that will help you determine if you are with your soul-mate... or not.
1. Your soul mate should share analogous likes and beliefs, but not on all fronts
A loving and caring relationship demands a few things in common between both the parties just to minimize the count of arguments. Moreover, this way couples can enjoy each other’s company. This doesn’t mean you guys should be alike in all aspects; otherwise, you both would be twins. So, a pinch of similar likes and beliefs would make your relationship solid and that is what you want.
2. The one who wants to live a similar life like you do
Does he/she like to travel consistently the way you do? Is he/she fine if you would be messy all the time? Is he/she fine if you want to follow your dream? All these things matter a lot to live a "perfect" life with your soul mate. Do consider these things once you are on your way to find your soul mate.
3. Is he/she willing to lose arguments for the sake of keeping the relationship flawless?
Where there is love, there exists arguments too! This doesn’t mean you will always argue or that your soul mate has to listen every time. The thing is that you both have to compromise somewhere down the line. So, you need to analyze your soul mate from this perspective before putting a “this is my soul mate” stamp on them.
4. Your soul mate should be very attractive (to you)
This one is true in all the senses. If you don’t feel like sleeping with your lover, then why would you spend your whole life watching the same person in your bed every night? Mark my advice and choose the one whom you want to kiss every morning before leaving the bed. Ahh! This doesn’t mean he/she should meet the standards of a supermodel. They should be attractive enough for you to feel aroused when they are around.
5. He/she should open you up to a new side of life
An incredible life is a life full of exciting stuff. Choose the one who can handle your level of curiosity for learning and exploring new things around you two. Moreover, your soul mate should be the one who can open a new life at your doorstep – a life you could never think would exist on this earth. A few sweeping of the feet moments never killed anyone.
If you come across a person having all of the above traits than don’t think much and grab him/her quickly before they leave your sight. They might not be the best looking but they sure are the ones that will bring you love.